
If you are committed to growth, you know about cocooning. True growth involves transformation, which sometimes requires us to go within in order to regenerate.
Several weeks ago I went into cocooning mode. I had very little interest in going out or even answering my phone. From the outside it looked like depression, but I knew better. Rather than fighting the urge to spend countless hours on my couch watching movies, I went with it. (By the way if you haven't seen Dreamgirls, it's a must see!)
Last Saturday morning I emerged from the cocoon renewed, I joked with my sisters that I got my mojo back:) After days of not doing any work beyond necessities, I put together a new workshop and wrote an article all in one morning.
Whether you call it ebb and flow or yin and yang, honoring your natural rhythms is key to ongoing growth. The idea of growth happening in a straight line is not accurate, it's more of an upward spiral - or as I like to visualize it - an inward spiral with a star at the center.





3 Comments:
that is a beautiful visual Kim. I am glad you have re-emerged and am interested to see what is in store for us as a result of your newly inspired energy :)
Much love
g.
How's it goin kim. I really can't see the wonderful kim drained of energy and i'm glad your back! I think your totally right in what you said, but i think it's very tough to go through the cocoon phase.
I really miss having your class, going through so much in life is weird not having my interpersonal communication's class every monday and wensday. for me, i figure i dont need to be stuck in some ways, so every day i work to help myself, and be the real me. right now i like this girl, but i was to chicken to make my move. but i said what the hell show her the real evan, and if she doesnt like it... who cares. anyways things are good, i'll check back for more updates on you... but it sounds like everything is going well :)
ev
this is so very true kim! i go through cocooning phases, and i used to get frustrated with them, but now i'm just at peace with the fact that sometimes we need to "go within," or even be in funk a little bit to realign. this is a silly analogy, but for me its like cleaning when i'm not in the mood, i have to wait to be ready and then i get it done without stressing. cant wait for more info on your new workshop! =]
much love,
melissa
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